Living A More Relax Life - READ THIS BOOK !!!

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One day I was given this book by one of my managers who at the time wanted to be my mentor well that didn't work out to our liking , but, the book was definitely eye opener.

 The Four Agreements is a very basic and easy book to read even a toddler would be able to grasp the knowledge of the book. It's funny how the simple things in life truly brings you  the most joy and satisfaction. The book works on self development using four agreements with yourself that will propel to living a happier, less stressful life. To be honest, 99percent of the things we stress about is self inflicted stress meaning, because we lack knowledge of the situation we stress about it. That's all it truly is, is knowledge; you go to church and seminars to get knowledge to deal with your life problems correct ? Exactly!! Someone who is stressed a lot is usually someone of low intellect, "Well I have a degree, I have knowledge why am I so stressed then" one may say. Oh boy these people !!!(-_-). Let me clarify to you all clearly; a degree in no regards is a justification of  intelligence; it's more of a signification of  dedication and self determination. I know people with degrees who are struggling financially, with  relationships, on the job and with parenting and all these struggles are results of lack of knowledge. A degree specializes you in ONE field not Life remember. Knowledge has no limits or specialization; it's forever which means everyday you should seek knowledge. Problem is people stop learning when they live college not understanding that everyday you are in school!!

Here I go straying away from the topic again *sigh* who wants to be my co-host ? lol I need help with this. Moving on people :)

 So here's the four agreements, buy the book so that you can understand clearly how these agreements will help you throughout your lifetime. My favorite one is " Don't Make Assumptions" I realize how this effected me a lot and it's one area I've improved on since reading this book. I tend to ask questions more rather than assume something; assumptions are bad.

 Invest in yourself, invest in your happiness, break every chain!!! I will be sharing more books but let's get started with this one and we will get more in dept in the future.

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Have a great day !!!
Leo

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